gravity well
slowing down is going against the inertia of motion which creates a gravity well and that is the source of attractive force
in a hurry, you lose attractive energy
we are each capable of our own time control
there is the fast lane and there is the slow lane
but slowing down is speeding up because for the fact you are in no hurry you don't miss anything as you would if you perpetually were in a race against time
the source of gravity is stillness
or at least gravitational like force, attractive force, magnetizing force
because in going against the movement that requires energy and from that energy comes more energy generated in fighting the inertia of motion, of everything constantly going over the edge
gravity well